High School Abroad
Host Family Abroad
The host family has a big influence on your everyday life abroad: food, rules, conversations, weekends and small misunderstandings are all part of it. Good preparation helps to develop realistic expectations.
Why host families?
A host family gives you insight into the culture and everyday life of your host country. You become part of the family, celebrate celebrations together, take part in excursions and learn the language faster. For parents, the host family offers security and a contact person on site.
Selection & preparation
Host families are carefully checked by our partner organizations. There are detailed application documents, personal interviews and Home visits. All adult family members must present a police clearance certificate. The organization ensures that the family can provide a safe, well-maintained home and is financially stable.
There is no “typical” host family: some families are young couples without children, others have children of their own, others are pensioners or single parents. What is important is their motivation to take in international students and integrate them as family members. They help you with formalities and see themselves as surrogate parents.
Before placement you will receive a detailed family profile with information about hobbies, profession, religion and place of residence. You can express your wishes (e.g. siblings, pets), and the organization will try to take these into account.
Life in everyday family life
Respect and openness are important. You are not a guest in the hotel, but a Part of the family: participate in household chores, play with younger siblings, and follow house rules. Show interest in traditions, bring a small gift and use meals to exchange ideas. Differences in meal times, manners or leisure activities are normal – they make up the experience.
Many host families expect you to trust them when dealing with authorities or organizing everyday school life; They support you with doctor's visits, bank appointments or if you want to change a course. Don't be afraid to ask questions - talking openly about problems helps avoid misunderstandings.
Conflicts & Solutions
Misunderstandings cannot always be avoided. Important tips:
- Address problems early on – many can be solved through communication.
- Use the support of your local coordinator.
- If there are serious problems, you can request a change of host family. Only a very small proportion of exchange students actually have to change families - most misunderstandings are resolved through open discussions.
Tips for parents
Stay in touch with the host family, but respect your child's independence. Explains medical specialties and allergies in advance and ensures that important documents are translated. Trust that your host family will treat your daughter or son like a family member and will support them with administrative procedures, doctor visits or school questions. An open relationship with the host family helps to counteract homesickness without making it difficult for your child to settle in.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I change host families?
Yes, if serious problems arise. However, a change should be used as a last option.
Do I have to follow rules?
Yes. Host families have rules such as meal times and exit times. These should be respected.
Do I get pocket money from the host family?
No. Your parents should plan pocket money. The host family provides accommodation and meals.
Can my host family speak German?
That's rare. The goal is for you to learn the local language. However, many families are interested in German customs.
What counts for the decision
- Host family should always be viewed with an eye on everyday life, school, budget and return.
- Students need a solution that appears linguistically, socially and personally accessible.
- Parents need understandable information about care, safety, responsibilities and planning.
For further planning this fits: Host family or boarding school, Security, Homesickness.
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